Last time I said that speaking loud would show dominance. There is another way to do that with your voice: the intonation.
There are two intonation that I want to look at:
Imagine a bouncer in front of a club who checks the age of the party people. For a specific party he only grants entry to 25 year olds or older. If he thinks someone is older then he doesn’t even check. If someone looks young he asks: “how old are you?”
Your voice is a very important tool of your body language.
Recently I was “on tour” with a pro and learned two ways to express dominance and strong male presence with my voice. Here is one of them:
Talk loud and clear!
I always felt a bit embarrassed to talk loud. Especially when I approached a woman. I didn’t want other people to notice it. I didn’t want to stand out. But exactly that is a problem. A dominant alpha male is not impressed about what others think about him. He is congruent with what he is doing. He isn’t looking for validation from others. He decides for himself.
