In a seduction a man and a woman touch each other more and more until they kiss and have sex. That was the step-by-step-part.
In the attitude-part I said that the man doesn’t have to wait until the woman shows him that he is now allowed to touch her. He should just do it because he choses to. By doing so he is dominant and therefore the woman feels attraction and welcomes the touching.
Now let’s look closer at the exact moment when to touch.
Let’s assume a man and a woman are attracted to and like each other. A seduction happens when they touch each other more and more until they kiss and have sex. The touching is a step by step escalation. That’s what I wrote in part one.
You might ask: When should I touch her? When should I escalate?
For a long time I thought it works like this: The woman will show me whether she wants me to touch her. If the woman showed me that she is attracted to me and likes me I escalated. So I basically waited for her permission. This is correct but it’s WEAK!
Do you know this situation? A guy is on a date with a woman he likes. They have fun and they understand each other very well. Once in a while he thinks that he would like to kiss her but he is not sure if she would allow it. Maybe it’s not the right moment. So he waits and they continue having a good time. At the end of the date they hug and say goodbye and again he would like to kiss her but he’s afraid that she could reject him. Maybe he takes the risk maybe not. But in any way this kissing seems to be a big step and it seems very important.
There is something wrong with this situation!
Kissing should not be this huge step. It should be natural. But when is it natural? Is it when the woman is really attracted? Is it when the woman really likes him? Maybe.
