Entries Tagged as 'mission'

Mission: Spread Good Energy without Expectation

A while ago I found the idea that the universe manifests our thoughts into reality. That which we think about most becomes reality. It’s the law of attraction. We attract the things into our life whether we like them or not. Check out the article about the movie The Secret.

If we think about our problems then more problems are to come. If we feel secure about getting something then we will get it sooner or later. I don’t know whether this is more because of the pure focusing of thoughts or because of the attitude and the behaviors.

So what happens if I want something. I have the thought that I want to get something. What is the universe doing with this? How can it manifest my thought the easiest way? Does it just manifest my wish? NO!

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Mission – Beliefs in the Subconscious Mind

The last mission was to approach a woman every single day. When I went out to a bar or so it wasn’t particularly difficult to approach. There were always some opportunities to start conversations naturally. On day when I didn’t go out sometimes I bailed you.

I noticed when I saw a woman and then pressured myself to approach her I felt bad. Sometimes it felt like my whole interior tried to hold me back. There were thousands of reasons why I shouldn’t approach. Often I let it be.

Then there were situations in which I saw a woman and immediately and spontaneously started talking. Without any thoughts. It just happened.

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Mission: Approach One Woman Every Day!

It’s about time for a new mission. I do the following. You’re welcome to join.

For the next two weeks: Talk to one new woman every day. Say more than hi.

It doesn’t matter where. On the street, in a bar, in a waiting queue, in an elevator, on the train, …

It doesn’t matter who as long as it is a woman. This time employees in supermarket or so don’t count.

It doesn’t matter what you say and it doesn’t matter what happens. Just say more than hi and wait for her answer or reaction.

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Mission Small Talk

small-talk-kameleSome time ago, I thought that to seduce a woman I need clever lines and jokes. And because I didn’t have those, I wasn’t successful. What a nonsense! Even if I would have had some of those super clever lines, what would I have said after?

Let’s forget about seduction for a moment. Something that is a lot more important is this: the ability and the skill to have a normal conversation with a stranger. If you cannot initiate a conversation and hold it then what’s the point of the clever lines and cool techniques? If you can be relaxed and have a normal conversation then you are already very very far.

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The Inner Dialog

I’m going to write the 3rd part of the escalation series later. Today I start with a mission for the next few weeks and of course you’re welcome to join. It’s about the inner dialog…

The “Stranger” Attitude

I’m walking along the street in a pedestrian area. From far away I see a pretty woman walking towards me. Exactly my type. Does she see me too? I’m watching her while she’s coming closer. Does she see me? Does she like me? She’s coming closer. 10 meters to go. I’m looking into her eyes. She’s looking straight ahead. Doesn’t she see me? 5 meters. She doesn’t look at me. Doesn’t she like me? Why doesn’t she look at me? Am I not tall enough? 3 meters. Not good looking enough? Not her type? Now she’s at my level and is passing by and she didn’t even look at me. Why didn’t she look at me? What didn’t she like about me?

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