Entries Tagged as 'direct'

How to Escalate the Conversation to the Personal Level

Here I described how you can get the woman to escalate the conversation to the personal level. In this article it’s about how you can do the transition yourself.

Investing into Something

Can you identify with one of the following situations?

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I’m in Las Vegas playing at a slot machine. I insert a coin and pull the handle. The wheels turn and stop. No win. Again. No win. I insert coin after coin but I’m not winning. After a while I switch to the slot machine next to it. But I’m not winning there either. Then someone is approaching who also seems to want to play. For some reason I don’t want this person to play at my previous machine, so I switch back to play at my old machine. That doesn’t really make sense. But I feel invested in that machine because I did put money in there.

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I Like You – The Pick-Up and the Phone Call

I was at a street party with a friend. There were many people on the street, on benches at tables next to the street, at bars, and dancing in small open air discos.

In the middle of all those people a saw a pretty girl sitting at one of the tables. I was holding eye contact and pointed at her with my index finger. She was surprised. Then I walked slowly and directly towards her. There were people left and right but I held eye contact with her.

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