Sexual Attraction and Comfort
In the last two posts (“we feel when we meet the right partner” and “selfish men are sexy”) I said that a woman must feel two emotions to start a intimate relationship: she must feel sexually attracted and she must feel comfortable with the guy.
A woman feels sexually attracted to a man if he is powerful, dominant, confident and leading (this helps his genes). She feels comfortable with a man who is caring, nice and trustworthy (this helps her genes).
These two emotions are very different. Imagine what happens if a woman feels only one them.
