Mission: Approach One Woman Every Day!
It’s about time for a new mission. I do the following. You’re welcome to join.
For the next two weeks: Talk to one new woman every day. Say more than hi.
It doesn’t matter where. On the street, in a bar, in a waiting queue, in an elevator, on the train, …
It doesn’t matter who as long as it is a woman. This time employees in supermarket or so don’t count.
It doesn’t matter what you say and it doesn’t matter what happens. Just say more than hi and wait for her answer or reaction.
Don’t do this: You see a woman with her back turned to you. You walk up to her and mumble from behind “hi, how are you?” without her hearing you. That doesn’t count.
Why this mission?
I feel I’m not at the point that I can approach any woman anywhere anytime. The first girl I talk to everyday is the most difficult. After that it becomes easier and easier. But the next day this first is there again…
That’s why I want to practice to start that first and most difficult conversation. I think there is the biggest learning experience in this first one.
It’s about expanding the comfort zone. It’s not about getting as many numbers or dates.
Have fun!
It\’s true - It\’s all about expanding the comfort zone. Men must work on this. If you approach women just for the sake of it with time it will get normal and start working!
I would recommend anyone to follow what you say here!