Dominant Body Language – Strong Voice
Your voice is a very important tool of your body language.
Recently I was “on tour” with a pro and learned two ways to express dominance and strong male presence with my voice. Here is one of them:
Talk loud and clear!
I always felt a bit embarrassed to talk loud. Especially when I approached a woman. I didn’t want other people to notice it. I didn’t want to stand out. But exactly that is a problem. A dominant alpha male is not impressed about what others think about him. He is congruent with what he is doing. He isn’t looking for validation from others. He decides for himself.
Note that I’m not talking about an evil asshole who treats others badly and doesn’t give a fuck if he hurts someone. I’m talking about a strong man who does with good intention what he thinks is the right thing. He knows he cannot do it right for everyone so he is loyal to himself.
That is exactly what you communicate when you talk loud and clear.
These days I’m experimenting with the volume of my voice. I keep reminding myself again and again to talk a bit too loud in my opinion. It felt weird in some situations but I noticed that people react in a very positive way.
I recommend to everyone to experiment with the volume of their voices and to watch what happens.
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