So that a conversation with a new woman can go to the personal level, she must be in some way interested in you. She must feel attraction. More see here…
Now I want to look closer at the transition from impersonal small talk to personal conversation. Basically there are two strategies:
In this article I write about the first possibility.
Here’s a mission I’m going to do for the next week (of course you’re welcome to join):
Smile and say hi to 10 strangers every day.
Have you ever done this? Did you think it’s embarrassing?
It depends upon your attitude.
The point of all the articles about small talk was to just chat. Now we’re getting into the seduction zone. 
In the previous article I talked about the personal and the impersonal conversation. The former is with a friend, the later is with a stranger.
If you talk to a strange woman it can become weird pretty quick to even talk to her. One reason can be that she doesn’t know why you’re talking to her, another one can be that she thinks it’s boring.
To continue you must bring the conversation to a personal level.
In this article I explain why a conversation with a stranger often leads nowhere.
What is the difference between a conversation with a good friend and one with a stranger?
Let’s have a look at two conversations. Once I’m talking to a friend, once to a girl I just met in a bar.
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With a good friend…
Me: Hey, what’s up!
Him: Hey, I’m fine and you?
Me: Good good, yesterday I watched the latest Rambo movie. Wow it was incredibly violent, but for some reason pretty cool.
Him: What? You watch stuff like this?!
Me: Come on that’s cult!
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When I was talking to a woman I often thought about what I could say or ask next while she was still talking. I would ask a question and while she was answering I thought about my next thing to say. When she was finished talking I would say or ask it. Because I was only half listening and half thinking what to say next my next statement or question didn’t fit totally to what she said.
After a while this starts to be weird. The other person senses that the conversation is not quite right. Something feels a bit off even if the other person doesn’t understand consciously what is happening. Chances are that the conversation ends soon.
I thought some more about my goals with women.
There are two attitudes that both seem to lead into a dead end and both seem to contradict each other:
1. Goals. You need to set goals and work on them to reach them. The dead end is that you can never find ultimate happiness because you will want to set higher and higher goals.
2. Gratitude. You need to be thankful and grateful for the things you already have and look at everything that will come to you as a gift. The dead end is that you don’t develop yourself.
Check out this interview. It’s awesome! 
Here are a few ideas what you can say to start a conversation. There are three possibilities:
