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Talk to Everybody!

einkaufswagenAgain I was in the supermarket at the cashpoint and did my mission.

In front of me in the queue there was an elderly man. When he finished putting all his shoppings onto the conveyor band he dropped his shopping basket onto the pile of baskets. He didn’t hit exactly so that his basket ended up lying diagonal upon the others. He bent down to correct it. I commented: “almost”. He looked at me, smiled and told me that he would practice every time and he would be pretty good already. We joked around that I would still be a total beginner in the shopping-basket-on-the-pile-throwing and that one should get a discount if you hit.

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Killer Dating Tips

How to Start a Conversation

What should you talk about?

The first thing you need to realize is that you don’t need to say anything spectacular. It doesn’t have to be super funny nor ridiculously interesting nor extremely clever. You can say whatever comes to mind. Anything.

The important thing is that you say it immediately!

Imagine you come into a situation, for instance the cashpoint in the supermarket. You’re saying hi. The cashier is calculating your stuff together. All the time you look at her wondering what you could say and after a another while you say: “how are you?”

That’s weird isn’t it?

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Mission Small Talk

small-talk-kameleSome time ago, I thought that to seduce a woman I need clever lines and jokes. And because I didn’t have those, I wasn’t successful. What a nonsense! Even if I would have had some of those super clever lines, what would I have said after?

Let’s forget about seduction for a moment. Something that is a lot more important is this: the ability and the skill to have a normal conversation with a stranger. If you cannot initiate a conversation and hold it then what’s the point of the clever lines and cool techniques? If you can be relaxed and have a normal conversation then you are already very very far.

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Review of The Inner Dialog

I hope some of you practiced and experimented with the idea to think “she wants me” whenever you see a woman.

Maybe you realized that it’s not so easy to always remember it. Often the awareness wanders away and you forget about the mission.

I already did this mission a while back. Then I went out every day for about 20 minutes, walked along a street, and thought the “required” thoughts. I got a pretty good state from it and I was in a good mood almost everywhere I went.

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Attitude About Sex

Steve Pavlina wrote a very nice article about sex and the attitude about it.

You can check it out here.

My Goals With Women

zielscheibeI’m engaged for some time now in the art of seduction, personal development, and spirituality. I approached a few thousand women, I had one night stands, I had short and long sexual relationships, and I had girlfriends.

Many guys would call me “successful with women”. And still I’m not quite happy with my results. I don’t have exactly what I want.

But to have what you truly want you have to know what it is that you want. Otherwise chances to actually get it are slim.

By now I came to the conclusion that you can achieve anything you can think of. So I reflected about it and asked myself the following questions:

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Book Recommendations

Sometimes people ask about books I recommend.

Here’s my list.

The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins


That was an interesting but not too easy read about evolution. Here are some exciting details…

How Did Life Come Into Existence?

There was water, carbon dioxide, methane, and ammoniac on earth. By adding energy from the sun and thunder storms, more complicated molecules like amino acid were formed. Those are the building blocks of proteins. Coincidental at one point in time some remarkable molecules came to existence. They had the ability to copy themselves: Replicators. I imagine this copying process like this: A replicator attracts other molecules until two identical replicators are next to each other. Then they part. Of course this process isn’t perfect so mistakes occur during copying.

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Brainwashing In Our Society

What was the point of the story with the brainwashed monkeys? Why don’t men find it normal to approach women they are attracted to? What’s the connection to the monkeys?

The monkeys beat up the one who tries to get the banana. In the beginning there was a reason: the cold water. But later none of the monkeys knew about the water. What remained was the fear of being beaten up. There was no reason anymore.

Men fear approaching women and the fear is even bigger if the woman is better looking. They don’t know exactly why. Maybe awkwardness, fear of rejection, or fear of being judged. Even though it’s not really dangerous. Nothing really serious can happen. And nothing even more serious can happen if the woman looks better. So why this fear?

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