I Like You – The Pick-Up and the Phone Call
I was at a street party with a friend. There were many people on the street, on benches at tables next to the street, at bars, and dancing in small open air discos.
In the middle of all those people a saw a pretty girl sitting at one of the tables. I was holding eye contact and pointed at her with my index finger. She was surprised. Then I walked slowly and directly towards her. There were people left and right but I held eye contact with her.
At her table I leaned over, put my hands on the table, and said hi. We kept the eye contact. She said hi too and asked whether we know each other. I said: „no, I like you.“ The tension was incredible. We shook hands and offered our names. I kept holding her hand for a while and then let go.
I sat down opposite of her and I did a bit of small talk with her and her girl friend. Maybe two minutes. Then I told her I had to leave and put my cell phone into her hand and told her to type in her number. She was totally excited and asked her girlfriend what to do. She told her to give the number so she did. I said goodbye and left.
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Why did it go so well? As I wrote in the last post, attraction and comfort is needed.
Was there sexual attraction? Yes, there was an incredible tension between us when I said hi.
Why was there this attraction? It was the way I approached her. I didn’t hesitate. I walked slowly and directly towards her and I held eye contact without peeking to the left or right. I told her that I like her. With that I showed her that I’m a dominant man with self confidence. That’s why she felt attraction. She didn’t have any choice.
I didn’t walk over to her to find out that she likes me. She liked me because I did it the way I did. Please note the difference!
Did she feel comfortable? Somewhat. We small talked for a while. We didn’t know too much about each other. But we were both curious to find out more.
Let’s go on…
A few days later I called her and we talked for about half an hour. We talked about many things: where we live, what we do in our free time, how many shoes we posses, what we watch on TV and more. Then we made plans to go for a drink in one of the next days.
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We got to know and we found out some things about the other. Nothing spectacular, just amusing and comfortable. The phone call was about building comfort. Not attraction. That was still there from our first meeting.
Here’s what happened on the date.

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