I Like You – The Date
You can find the approach and the first phone call here.
We met, bought something to drink, walked a bit along the lake, and sat down on a bench directly next to the water. We chit chatted about many things and had some good laughs together. One of the questions that kept coming up was my age. I look a bit younger that I am so she didn’t believe me. She asked to check my ID which I refused. I asked whether she really thought that my eyes could lie. During the evening she kept asking for my ID at least five times and I refused. After a while I started to feel pretty childish for refusing. But I also noticed that this “not giving in” was generating a lot of tension and attraction. I also thought that it was pretty funny that she kept asking.
We touched each other many times “accidentally” and our faces were just a few inches apart. The kiss was in the air. But both of us didn’t do anything so we could enjoy the tension.
After about an hour we started to talk about movies and found out that we haven’t watched the first Harry Potter but wanted to. So we decided to go rent it on DVD right then and go watch it.
Note:
You could claim that “watch a movie at my place” is a deception to bait a girl to come home with you. I don’t see it that way at all. Imagine I would honestly say: “lets go to my place and have sex.” If she would agree then she would probably feel like an easy slut. I don’t think a girl who sleeps with me is a slut. She has the same right to have fun as a guy. I don’t want to make her feel like an easy slut, so I give her an excuse. Like this she doesn’t feel bad if she agrees and afterwards she could say to herself: “we watched a movie and then it happened.”
Lets move on…
We went to a store to buy some frozen pizzas then to the video rental and finally to my place. With the pizza in the oven we started watching Harry Potter, interrupted to eat and then continued the movie.
In the beginning we sat on the couch next to each other then I hugged her. A few times we kissed shortly but she interrupted because she didn’t want to miss the movie. After the film we made out for a while then she said she wanted to go home. So I drove her to her place.
Note:
At this moment I thought about persisting harder to make her horny, but then decided against it. Maybe it would have worked out but I thought it’s a hassle and might have come across as needy. My intuition told me to just let it flow and see what happens.
Lets go on…
In front of her house we stayed in the car talked for a while and started making out again. This time more intense. Then she asked whether we meet again. I said sure why not. She said she wanted to go in and pick up her clothes she needs the next day and she would like to sleep at my place.
She picked up her stuff, we drove back to my place, went to bed and slept with each other.
Note:
Apparently this car drive was enough for her to feel enough comfort and trust with me. The fact that I didn’t desperately try to get her was the reason for her to chase me. I like it better when the girl seduces me.
Awesome!