Do you know this situation? A guy is on a date with a woman he likes. They have fun and they understand each other very well. Once in a while he thinks that he would like to kiss her but he is not sure if she would allow it. Maybe it’s not the right moment. So he waits and they continue having a good time. At the end of the date they hug and say goodbye and again he would like to kiss her but he’s afraid that she could reject him. Maybe he takes the risk maybe not. But in any way this kissing seems to be a big step and it seems very important.

There is something wrong with this situation!

Kissing should not be this huge step. It should be natural. But when is it natural? Is it when the woman is really attracted? Is it when the woman really likes him? Maybe.

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Women like dominant and strong men. The question is this: How can you communicate that to a woman? Probably she would not believe you if you told her directly: “I’m dominant and strong.” There must be another way to do that.

One way is this: Don’t explain yourself! Don’t justify yourself! Don’t qualify yourself!

Here’s a simple example of what I mean with explaining oneself

A good friend of mine says to me: “Your shirt is ugly!”
I answer: “But the sales girl gave me very good advise and she told me that the shirt looks good with these jeans.”

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Merry Christmas to all of you!

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I just finished this fascinating book about evolution and sex. Matt Ridley examines what happened to humans and animals during evolution. And he has some amazing answers. Check it out!

To be in a “red queen race” means that you have to run, evolve, and become better just to stay where you are in comparison to the others. It’s about sexual selection and survival of the own species. (see also wikipedia)

Why Do Humans Have Sex?

There are beings that do simple cell division to reproduce. So why do we have sex? The answer is astounding: To be resistant against parasites, like bacteria that live within us. They change their genetic code all the time and they live during several generations while there is only one human generation. They adapt to the human. As a result of sex the genes of a man and a woman get combined to a new genetic code. The offspring now is immune against the parasites. It’s a red queen race.

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Again I’m in a bar which is pretty packed. A hot girl with fake eye lashes crossed my path.

Me: Are those lashed real?
She: [no answer]
Me: Are those real?
She: [looks at me kind of angry] This is my husband. [She points to the guy behind her.]
I keep looking in her eyes. Very intense eye contact. After a while I look at the guy then back into her eyes.
Me: Shall I ask him?
She: The lashes are fake. But they’re beautiful aren’t they?
Me: Very beautiful.

There was another short intense eye contact then I walked past her to the bar. A few seconds later she was standing right behind me and grabbed my butt. I turned around. She looked at me with a big smile. I smacked her ass and we both left.

Very funny how the atmosphere changed! First she was serious and cold. It was just a test. When I ignored it she suddenly was interested in me.

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In a bar. A woman was waiting at the top of the stairs that lead down to the restrooms. I wanted to pass her by and we look at each other. I stopped and said hi. She said hi back. I asked her a few questions. Who are you? Where are you from? What are you doing? On one level those were very simple interview type questions. But on another level there was an incredible tension between us. So I asked her whether she already kissed today. She said she did with her boyfriend who was in the restroom now and she was waiting for him. I went closer to her and kissed her lips then we kissed with tongue. After a short while we stopped so she didn’t get caught and I left.

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I’m not going into a deep discussion here. Just a short story a girl told me recently…

She flirted with her eyes with a guy. Then later when she wanted to walk past him he said something to her. She just kept walking. He asked her to stop but she walked off anyway.

Later in the same bar she saw him again and flirted with him with the eyes. He was confused and didn’t talk to her anymore.

What happened here? Why didn’t she stop to talk to him? Why did she flirt with him again later? What’s the matter?

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You can find the approach and the first phone call here.

We met, bought something to drink, walked a bit along the lake, and sat down on a bench directly next to the water. We chit chatted about many things and had some good laughs together. One of the questions that kept coming up was my age. I look a bit younger that I am so she didn’t believe me. She asked to check my ID which I refused. I asked whether she really thought that my eyes could lie. During the evening she kept asking for my ID at least five times and I refused. After a while I started to feel pretty childish for refusing. But I also noticed that this “not giving in” was generating a lot of tension and attraction. I also thought that it was pretty funny that she kept asking.

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I was at a street party with a friend. There were many people on the street, on benches at tables next to the street, at bars, and dancing in small open air discos.

In the middle of all those people a saw a pretty girl sitting at one of the tables. I was holding eye contact and pointed at her with my index finger. She was surprised. Then I walked slowly and directly towards her. There were people left and right but I held eye contact with her.

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In the last two posts (“we feel when we meet the right partner” and “selfish men are sexy”) I said that a woman must feel two emotions to start a intimate relationship: she must feel sexually attracted and she must feel comfortable with the guy.

A woman feels sexually attracted to a man if he is powerful, dominant, confident and leading (this helps his genes). She feels comfortable with a man who is caring, nice and trustworthy (this helps her genes).

These two emotions are very different. Imagine what happens if a woman feels only one them.

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