In the last post I claimed that a woman isn’t able to really say how she can be seduced. Here’s a recent example that I experienced.

I met a girl in a club, we flirted and had fun together. We were standing close to each other while people were pushing past us. Once my girl was pushed towards me pretty closely. I didn’t move away at all and I pulled her in even more and gave her a hug. Then we continued talking normally. A while after that she said she would go “over there” to her girlfriends and invited me to come over as well.

I stayed where I was and talked to other people. A bit later SHE came to me, flirted a bit and left again with the invitation I should come see her and her girlfriends in the other part of the club.

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Tags: Experience, Man-woman-dynamics by Logan
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In the beginning I thought that I just wanted to figure out how to get laid with a particular woman. I knew a few that I was interested in but whom were not interested in me. I thought that I needed some lines and more lines for all the women’s responses. And then again lines for all responses…

While following this strategy I noticed that it’s more important to understand how women work and think in general and what they want. Later I understood that it’s not really about women but it’s about me. I learned a lot about myself, who I was, what I wanted, what my thinking patterns were, who I wanted to be. That brought me to the question what a man is, what he’s doing and what he wants.

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Tags: Introduction, Man-woman-dynamics by Logan
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I often hear this from women. It means men only want sex and when they had it they leave the woman.

Is that true? Are men like that?

To find out lets assume that there are two types of men. Type ones are incredibly good with women. Type twos are total losers. Of course in reality men are not good or bad but they can also be everything in between. But lets put that aside and do an thought experiment to see how a world would look like if there would only be super great seducers and total losers.

Some of you might argue that if a man and a woman fit together then sex and a relationship will happen naturally. I’m with you on this one, but still the question remains why with some men this happens all the time, and with others it almost never happens.

So lets start the thought experiment…

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Steve Pavlina is writing a very successful blog since 2004. He is engaged in different aspects of personal development and was looking for coherence and general principles in personal growth. In his recently published book he presents a very smooth and elegant result.

I really liked the book. It showed me many new and stronger perspectives about life. In this post I would like to share some of them with you.

You can find a sample chapter one of the book in pdf here.

Part I

In the first part Steve Pavlina describes his seven fundamental principles of personal development.

The core principles:

Truth
We primarily grow as human beings by discovering new truths about ourselves and our reality. First we have to face the truth and accept it as it is. We cannot solve problems if we don’t admit they are there.

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A few years ago I just separated from my girlfriend of many years. I was single again so I went out a lot with my friends and we drank a lot of beer. From time to time I met a girl. We talked to each other but most of the time it didn’t go any further. Sometimes we exchanged phone numbers, but I didn’t call them cause I wasn’t really interested in them. Or we talked on the phone but normally we still didn’t meet up anymore.

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